Sometimes, couples do not even need to explain how they are feeling. Sending a particular meme or reel can become a way of saying ‘This is so you,’ ‘This reminded me of us’ or ‘This is exactly what happened yesterday.’ Over time, certain formats, characters and recurring jokes become part of their everyday conversations.

The interesting thing about these little habits is that most of them are never planned. They develop through shared experiences, repeated conversations and moments that may not mean much to anyone else. And perhaps that is what makes a couple’s private language special: it is built from memories that only the two of them share.